Celebrating the holiday far from home
Late on Tuesday, Miriam Moskovitz, a Chabad-Lubavitch emissary to Kharkov, Ukraine with her husband Rabbi Moshe Moskovitz, received a text from a woman in her community and a photo of fresh-baked hamantaschen.
Given that it was a day before Purim, that wasn’t particularly remarkable. What was remarkable, though, was the woman baking them had done so from her kitchen in the heavily shelled Kharkov, the second largest city in Ukraine.
“Hi Miriam,” the woman wrote. “From Kharkiv with hope, sending you my hamataschen that I made last night not like we usually do with music in the background, but with artillery fire. … waiting for a miracle.”
The photo came a few hours after the Jewish community of Kharkov gathered together on Zoom along with the Moskovitzes, who have led the community there since 1990, to discuss how to celebrate Purim under these difficult conditions.
“It was very emotional Zoom,” said Moskovitz. “Many are in places where they cannot hear the megillah. Many are alone very far away from their homes or they are stuck in Kharkiv and unable to leave. Our message to everybody is that we are with our community, that we are still united even though we are physically spread out and in different places.
“When Purim comes, and we are commanded to be happy, and we have to do it,” they told their community members. “As hard as it is to be happy when we are seeing so much suffering around us, we have to push ourselves to be happy and that happiness itself will break through all the barriers.”
The Moskovitzes, who are prepared to go back to Kharkov as soon as it is safe, are also planning a Purim event on Thursday for the 200 members of their community who are with them in Israel.
Hundreds of people in Kfar Chabad, a town in Northern Israel, rang in Purim on Wednesday night with singing and dancing. Joining them were guests from Chabad communities in Ukraine who had fled to Israel in recent days, including Jews from Cherkassy and their community’s leaders Chani and Rabbi Dov Axelrod.
“The event was amazing,” said Chani Axelrod. “It was powerful and … it gave everyone strength to go on. Physically we are happy and celebrating Purim with the people of our community who came with us to Israel, and we felt that happiness, but our hearts are with the people who stayed in Cherkassy, Ukraine. We feel for them and pray that they will be safe.”
Adding to the joyous feeling was the knowledge that the Jews still in Cherkassy will be celebrating Purim together.
“Around 50 to 60 people will come to shul tomorrow,” Axelrod said. “It came from them. We thought they would be scared to go out of the house, but they called us and together with them we organized a seduah (meal). I was amazed. They have shelling and are sheltering at night.
“We have two men there who are helping to arrange it. They sent us photos today of the volunteers who came in to help cook the meal and pack the packages for Mishloach Manot. They will also get additional food to take home for Shabbat. Thank G‑d it is feeling like Purim. We are unbreakable. We will bring Moshiach and we will do it with a lot of energy and happiness.”
Purim celebrations are also being held elsewhere in Israel and Europe, and in all places the feelings of joy were mixed with sadness at the thought of those left behind, those who remain trapped amid bombings and devastation.
Over the last few weeks, more than 120 orphans from Odessa were evacuated to Berlin under the care of the local Chabad-Lubavitch emissaries. In addition, another hundred children and women from Ukraine are also staying there for now.
Chabad has made sure to include them in all of their recent activities. On Wednesday night they joined with members of the Jewish community at Chabad Berlin to celebrate Purim in the courtyard of the synagogue with a reading of Megillat Esther.
For many children, getting dressed in costume is a big part of the Purim celebrations and Chabad in Berlin ensured that the young refugees were properly attired. Rows of costumes from princess dresses to spacesuits were laid out on tables and the refugees were able to go and pick out the outfit that suited them best, bringing smiles to all.
Additionally, a Purim party is planned at a local hotel for Thursday. The event is being moved from Chabad’s Jewish Educational Center so there will be enough space to include the orphan children from Odessa.
At Chabad-Lubavitch in the Republic of Moldova, dozens of Jews from Ukraine celebrated Purim together by hearing a reading of Megillat Esther. They sat at tables adorned with balloons and wore bright-colored plastic hats that were given out to add to the fun celebration. Additionally, mishloach manot packages were prepared in advance of the holiday, which will be distributed to local Jews and refugees who are temporarily staying in the country.